So yesterday I was at Target to get supplies for my daughter’s science project. In normal Target fashion, I came across some nice Target pieces that I couldn’t resist. I found a pair a great pair of gauchos dress slacks and a nice tank top to match. I also saw three Elf fancy makeup brushes that I felt I needed to have. The total pre-calculated total for my stuff came up to $63.00. I stared at my cart for over 40 minutes. I have a hard time justifying purchases for myself. It’s like my income is reserved for my family only. I have to prepare a great mental argument for me to rationalize making purchases for myself. HOW DARE I? What need could I possible have? I am a significant contributor to this household! Yet why is it so difficult to spent money on myself. I was in great need of this work outfit and makeup brushes. It sometimes feels as though the money I work for is reserved for everyone except me. Do you ever feel guilty buying things for yourself even when you feel the majority of your income goes to serve your family? I ended up buying my purchases but I did return some over priced masking tape and sticky letters to offset the total cost. I know I am not the only mom that struggles with purchases for herself. We need to nourish ourselves too. We have needs too……some needs and some wants. We are even entitled to the things we dont need. Cheers to all the moms who have wants and needs too!!
As always Fear Less, Love More, and drink moderately 😉
